Happy Humpday! Let’s talk about the unsung hero of your anatomy: the A-spot. Now, I know that you are probably tilting your head and are like… “don’t you mean the G-Spot?” Oh noooo… There is a whole other spot to explore! The A-spot, also known as the anterior fornix erogenous zone (AFE), this hidden gem, is nestled deep inside the vagina, and promises a whole new world of pleasure!
If you’ve never heard of it, or simply haven’t given it much thought, you’re not alone. So when the folks at LELO shared with us their newest product that both centers and celebrates the A-spot, we knew we had to ask more questions, dive a little deeper, and find out more about BOTH the A-spot and this new innovation in sexual wellness, the LELO Enigma, AND this hard-to-reach area, that is getting its time to shine— for good reason.
Because we are not experts here, we had the chance to chat with LELO Sexpert and Certified Sex Therapist, Casey Tanner, to better help us understand what the A-spot is, how a tool like the LELO Enigma can help us reach this new-to-us location, and share a few tips.
For those seeking “profound pleasure,” understanding the this erogenous zone and the tools designed to stimulate it, like the LELO Enigma Double Sonic, can offer a new, exciting dimension to your sexual experience. And since we are all about sexual wellness and empowerment, we thought to chat a bit about this interesting news!
So, What Exactly is the A-Spot?
The A-spot is an area of heightened sensitivity located deep in the vagina, between the cervix and bladder, about two inches beyond the G-spot. This zone, sometimes referred to as the female prostate, is known for its ability to enhance vaginal lubrication and its connection to vaginal orgasms.
So first, we need to know more about this sensitive area. Tanner shares, “Also known as the anterior fornix erogenous zone (AFE), this erogenous zone can be stimulated through deep penetration angled slightly toward the belly button with fingers, a toy, or a penis. Research suggests that stimulating this spot can promote more lubrication, make foreplay more pleasurable, and increase the chances of reaching orgasm.”
Unlike the G-spot, which is often celebrated for its role in orgasm, this new-to-us erogenous zone doesn’t always get the same recognition— until now.
For those who haven’t experienced a vaginal orgasm, it does make one wonder if the A-spot could be the missing piece of the puzzle. And what better way to explore this erogenous zone than with a tool specifically designed to reach it, like the LELO Enigma Double Sonic?
We have learned that the beauty of the A-spot lies not just in its ability to bring physical pleasure, but also in the profound emotional release it can induce.
Here to Help You Find that A-spot, Meet the LELO Enigma Double Sonic
Okay, so now that we know WHAT the A-spot is, the quest goes now into finding it. We are not going to tell you about the A-spot without chatting about the discovery that brought us here in the first place!
The LELO Enigma is giving us main character energy. We learned that LELO’s Enigma Double Sonic is a game-changer for anyone looking to stimulate this erogenous zone. With double sonic wave stimulation, it targets both the G-spot and the clitoris simultaneously, but it doesn’t stop there.
From the site, this device features a “sonic tip at the top of its insertable arm that emits waves directly to the A-spot, creating vaginal orgasms of intense magnitude.” But it doesn’t stop there!
The Enigma also provides dual sonic wave stimulation for the clitoris and G-spot, offering a trifecta of sensations. The ability to stimulate all three areas simultaneously makes this product a standout, providing a level of pleasure that goes beyond traditional toys.
Talk about triple stimulation at your fingertips!
Navigating the A-spot as a Plus-Sized Person
Now, we did wonder if being plus-sized had any impact or if there were any specific nuances for plus size bodies. Tanner confidently shared that “The angle required to reach the A-spot varies slightly depending on body type, pelvic structure, and arousal. From-behind sex positions, such as doggy style or spooning, can make it easier to access the A-spot if you and/or a partner is plus-sized.”
Good to know.
But where we get even more curious is wondering how plus size partners can maximize the dual sensation that the LELO Enigma Double Sonic provides. With this question, Tanner shares, “The LELO ENIGMA Double Sonic has a flexible arm that allows you to custom-tailor its position to the size and shape of your body.” We appreciate this feature.
Tanner continues on to share that, “If holding a toy in place for long periods of time becomes physically uncomfortable, you can help the LELO Enigma stay in place on its own by shifting onto your stomach after insertion. From there, you can utilize the movements of your pelvis to massage both your clitoris and G-spot, rather than relying on your hands.
Because the LELO ENIGMA Double Sonic pairs with an app, you don’t have to worry about accessing hard-to-reach places in order to adjust the speed or intensity of the sensations.”
Well, that is extremely thoughtful and considerate.
While we had Tanner’s attention, we had to ask and inquire about any recommended techniques or modifications for plus size folks to ensure comfort and ease when using a device like the LELO Enigma, particularly for extended play sessions.
Tanner gave us 6 succinct tips:
- Use lower back support, such as a supportive pillow or wedge
- Use your thighs to hold LELO Enigma in place
- Use LELO ENIGMA Double Sonic on your belly, instead of on your back
- Take advantage of the LELO ENIGMA Double Sonic remote control
- Use plenty of lubrication
- Take breaks or change positions
The LELO Enigma combines external and internal pleasure in ways many plus size people can appreciate. Since every body is different, the Enigma’s flexible design and custom-tailored settings allow for a fit that feels just right, regardless of body type.
Plus, with the added bonus of app control, you can tweak the settings without having to reposition yourself awkwardly—yes, convenience is sexy!
The Power of Lubricants
Lubricants play a critical role in maximizing the effectiveness of toys like the LELO Enigma. For plus size individuals, using a high-quality, water-based lube is essential to ensuring smooth, comfortable insertion and preventing irritation.
Lubrication can make or break your experience, especially when using a device like the LELO Enigma. For plus size women, where skin friction can be a concern, a high-quality lubricant can amplify pleasure and ensure a smooth, comfortable ride.
As we have learned that lubricants play a role in maximum impact, Tanner did have a lot to share about using lubricants and what to look for!
“You’ll know that a lubricant is body-safe if it is paraben-free, glycerine-free, and unscented. Some lubricants, like LELO’s Personal Moisturizer, also contain ingredients like aloe vera that help balance the skin’s PH to avoid irritation,” Tanner advised.
But Tanner continues on with these tips, especially with adding CBD into the mix, “To amplify the experience of double sonic stimulation, try a lubricant that contains CBD. For example, LELO’s Arousal Sex Oil can help increase blood flow, reduce chronic pain, and make solo exploration more pleasurable.”
On caring or preserving the life of your toy, Tanner also shares that, “Because the LELO ENIGMA Double Sonic is made of ultra-smooth premium silicone, be sure to use a water-based lube that doesn’t erode your toy over long periods of time.”
Duly noted.
Closing out this extremely informative and helpful interview, let’s set the record straight about the G-spot, which often steals the spotlight. According to Tanner, it’s not a standalone entity but rather a small part of the vaginal wall that allows you to massage the internal portion of the clitoris. Many folks feel pressure to “find” the G-spot, but the reality is that most vulva owners need external stimulation to reach orgasm.
“If you’re having pleasurable penetrative sex, either solo or partnered, it doesn’t matter if you are hitting the G-spot every single time. Locating the G-spot isn’t a perfect science, which is why using a toy like the ENIGMA Double Sonic that stimulates a broader erogenous area, can give you a higher chance of reaching those hard-to-reach places.”
This is where the LELO Enigma shines. It doesn’t make you choose between internal and external stimulation—you get both, making it much easier to explore your body and find what feels good, rather than focusing on some elusive G-spot goal.
Learn More about the LELO Enigma Sonic at LELO.com!
In the ever-evolving landscape of sexual wellness, the A-spot offers a thrilling new frontier for exploration, and with the right tools, it’s within reach for all.
The LELO Enigma is a powerful example of how sexual wellness products can be designed with inclusivity in mind. With its flexible, ergonomic structure and remote-control features, this toy allows users of all body types, including plus size individuals, to explore pleasure without discomfort.
It’s versatility means you can use it for solo play or with a partner, enhancing both your self-exploration and intimacy. And isn’t that what sexual wellness is all about—discovering new ways to experience pleasure and connect with yourself?
So, whether you’re familiar with this erogenous zone or just beginning your journey into sexual wellness, the LELO Enigma Double Sonic is a game-changer for exploring pleasure in all its forms. Go ahead and unlock the mystery of your A-spot—you might just find your new favorite toy in the process.
